Regardless of whether both or only one person is earning, how to manage finances in a marriage is a question that challenges most couples.  Managing finances is one of the important responsibilities that you need to handle right from the time you are married. Here is how you can discuss and plan your finances: 

• Work It Together: Working together is the best way to work in determining financial goals. Together you can also come up with a savings strategy that works for both of you. This way you can also share responsibilities and ensure that you support each other.
• Sharing Is The Word: When it comes to responsibilities sharing, make sure that both of you share the load equally. When both partners work together towards the same goal, it is easier to meet your goals. Also, it improves the rapport you have with your partner, 
• Money & Trust Go Together: The most important ingredient of a happy family is "Trust". Without trust, it is easy to misunderstand your partner and develop unnecessary conflict.  Therefore, make sure that you inform your partner in case there are any unexpected large expenses or if you have deviated from the budget a little bit.
• No Blame game: At times, things may not go your way. Under such circumstances, calm down and think about alternative investment options that you could employ. Do not blame yourself or your partner and think about what should be done for future expenses. 

Finding the right person is only the first step in your married life. Life after throws many challenges that can be dealt with easily if both partners are on the same page.    

Do not let your emotions rule when planning your finances. Take a stand from a neutral point of view and act accordingly.